Limiting Beliefs

April 14, 2023

1) What limiting beliefs are ready to end? The belief that all must be well before you move forward is ready to end. The belief that you must have the solution before you even take a step. We would say to you that oftentimes taking a single, simple step puts you on the pathway to your highest solution even in the path ends up being “wrong.”

2) Which beliefs are not ready but would be in my highest good to let go of? You are not ready to let go of the belief that you son’s wellness is tied to staying in your marriage. It is an inordinately limiting belief that you must tie yourself to another, not for your own good, but for the good of someone else, even when that someone else is your child. This is a primary limiting belief for you in this incarnation. Once your firstborn existed, he was all that mattered for you whether the relationship that formed him was able to be a true partnership or not. This is both the high and low expression of your Mother Bear Star, and yet another example of your belief that love means sacrifice. Come ask us another day what we believe love is, what we believe love means. If you choose to stay in this marriage because you believe this path provides you with the most opportunities for love, joy, growth, purpose, meaning, and service, we support you. But we would advise you to let your values around relationships change. Mutuality and reciprocity are your closest companions right now.

3) What old patterns is it time to release? It is time to release your need to hold on to what you know. (Know as in a mental, thinking, intelligence driven style of being in the world.) It is time to connect to the wisdom of your body. Your very cells carry direction and purpose for you, and often you reject your body’s direction in favor of the mind or spirit as if they are at odds with one being higher and another lower, as though the Divine Creator did not put all needed wisdom for your human vehicle into the various systems he designed to hold the totality of you.

We say to you, firmly and with the authority given to us as your Guides and Teachers, it is time to stop devaluing your body and time to stop wishing for another Earth Suit. Past time to stop judging the calls of your body as being any sort of moral anything. The needs, desires, rhythms of your body are good. The false dogma that you somehow cannot trust your very self is a lie from the pit of what you would call Hell and we would call the Void. You want to come higher. Come higher by delving deeper into the wisdom and intelligence of your body. Its loudness for you with your lover is another of his great gifts to you, not to be idealized, simply to be received. We say continue to connect with the Earth as a way to release this old pattern. Your back yard as haven is a good step.

4) What skeletons need to be cleared out of my closet? The skeleton needing to be cleaned out of your closet is self-hatred. It is the Shadow Side of your gift – Love of All Things – and you judge yourself harshly. Terribly harshly and unkindly, full of a severity and demand for perfection you would never require from or put on others. This skeleton is a means to enact control on a world far out of your control. Instead of being a leaf taken down the stream, you prefer to direct the path. If it was perfect enough, beautiful enough, perhaps some child would be wooed by its beauty, pluck it out of the harshness of the current, and place it safely in a book where it would be admired for its perfection and left alone to contemplate. Yet while you are a contemplative being, you are meant to be in the thick of all the things. You are meant to engage just as you are, not as some perfected future version of you, and let this life path take you along based on who responds to the truest you, imperfections and all.

When you hide your flaws, and hide from your flaws, you hide from your pathway. Yours is not a journey of cool, aloof, restrained, pressed, still beauty meant to be stared at and contemplated. You are beauty in the trenches. Your beauty lies in getting your hands dirty. In the fullness of your laughter. In the muchness of your shape. Let life carry and provide for the skin you are in, not just your beautifully heavy bones. (We know you like your bones but would shift what covers them. We like your bones too. We simply admire more than your bones. You are not here to be less. You are here in inhabit fully.) We would say this is enough teaching for today. Go put on a pretty dress, do your shopping, and be about your Earthly business. We will be here and are with you.